I decided to revive my blog. I’ve erased all of the old content and I’m starting from scratch. It’s never too late to start all over again, is it? I didn’t think so. This year I have learned what I believe to be the most important lesson.
“The only thing that is constant is change.” – Heraclitus
In February my 10-year marriage ended. It was the one thing I always thought was not a variable. I was so wrong but I have learned so much because of it. I have learned that I lost a large part of who I was when I was with him. Don’t get me wrong. My marriage was not all doom and gloom. On the contrary, we had a great marriage. We had similar goals and values and shared tons of great experiences and memories together. Somewhere along the way I lost my sense of direction. I was codependent and I based my happiness off of his. I wanted to make sure he had everything he needed and I forgot about living life for me. As a
divorcee single woman I can do that again. I have found myself and I love her to pieces.
Life has been good to me this year. I look forward to all of the changes ahead and I am grateful for them.